Questions have always plagued me. Whys. Wheres. Whats. This site is an answer to a call that followed me from long afternoons of reading, writing, and daydreaming on the red stoep of my parents’ house in Maseru, Lesotho.
I am Refiloe Letokoto — writer, speaker, storyteller, gender equality advocate, and grief scholar. Thank you for walking alongside me in this story still unfolding, thousands of miles away from where I started.
A letter to my mom
A look into how childhood bereavement influences our future
A conversation on Grief